Why is time being address as a doctor? Many says that time can heal anything... that means that time is actually a doctor rite? But as most of the creation of our Graceful & the one & only god, Allah, unlike its creator, creations are not perfect. There are certain things that time are not possibly able to heal. Just as actual human doctors, the work can be done 100% percent, but the end result is absolutely from the Creator. Minus the unavoidable mistakes & the weakness of men, that leaves us less than 100%. Time, on the other hand, have things limited from it preventing it to heal things such as physical damages, etc. On the other hand, dr time is always said to be reliable in recovering us from the inner side pain. Psychological pain. Feelings. Love, for example.
What is love? What do dr time define love as? Dr time would possibly suggest a hypothesis that love is a feeling developed over time, from 1 thing to another, which involves effections n beautiful feelings, that, over time, this love can grow or weaken depending on the circumstances. A negative circumstances could lead to the weakening of this so called love, while a positive incomes can lead to the otherwise.
In truth, a real love would grow, blossom, & keep moving forward regardless of the surroundings. Over time, a real love sustain n increase in its figurative size, withstanding whatever comes in its way. A love so true, so genuine, as vast as the deep blue sea, as clear as the crystal sky, nothing can stand in its way. Nothing. Even when u need to let go of the love, for the sake of the loved. A true lover only see happiness of the loved, dismissing any uncomfort any uneasy feelings the lover needs to encounter. A broken heart doesnt not stop the lover to do whats best fot the loved, nor a broken soul. No big as pain can attack the lover, in seeing & wanting the loved be happy. How often do we see parents from foster home files a summon because they are being left there by their own sons & daughters? How often do we see parents kept a list of expenditures n spendings, just to claim back all the ones they had use to raise their sons? Nothing stands between them & seeing their loved ones being happiness. Regardless of their condition, regardless of their wealth, regardless of their own happiness, & in some cases, regardless of their own life...
Life does not revolve around one person. Life does not revolve only around humans. Time, eventhough heals, it does not wait nor give special attention to oneself. At a specific time, a person may be happy earning his monthly salary, while at different faraway place, another is mourning over the death of a close family. One cannot put itself above time & wanting to be the centre of attention to everything. Sometimes sacrifice is required, blood for blood is needed for a better future of another. Love gave us a chance to do that. Love gave a way to make better of our life, our time, by sacrificing ours, to let another be happy. Love gives us an out. By doing something profitable to others rather than to our ownself. By doing so, we are giving 'precious' time to others.
A true love is accepting the loved, & their decision, even when the odds are against us. Surely it hurts, but here comes the friendly loving dr time... it will surely come to heal us. Regardless of long it seems to take. For the sake of the ones we loved. Remember, always keep telling ourself, that even though time is the doctor, it does not carry in its hand the end result. Our Cretor does. Nothing will get past Him without His judgements, so in loving others, make it count. Rather than for ourself, prioritize on the loved ones. At least, in the end, eventhough we wont have what we wanted, we would be doing a deed.
And trust me, in His eyes, we would rather have the deed, no matter how tiny it is, how insignificance & unnoticable by the humans eyes It may seems. It might be that tiny piece of deed that will be the difference between our good deeds & bad sins. May we pray for His forgiveness always, & may we pray for others too.
