Copy paste...some more food for thought on parent...

7 sebab kenapa kita perlu Berjaya dan Kaya

1. Bila Ibubapa anda masih belum MAMPU menunaikan Rukun Islam ke-5 iaitu Menunaikan Haji, siapakah yang akan membantu menunaikan hajat & impian mereka?

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku pun tak ade duit"

2. Bila Ibubapa anda perlukan duit untuk meneruskan sisa2 kehidupan mereka, untuk makan sesuap nasi, seteguk air, siapa yang akan menanggung mereka?

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku pun tak cukup makan."

3. Bila Ibubapa anda sakit, siapa yang akan uruskan bil2 klinik, hospital & kos perubatan mereka? Adakah kita hanya perlu pejamkan mata dan pekakkan telinga? Mereka tidak pernah meminta2 dari kita kerana mereka sangat memahami keadaan kita tetapi kita memahami kah keadaan mereka.

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku ada banyak hutang nak kena bayar bulan ni."

4. Bila Ibubapa anda bersedih kesunyian, tiada anak2 datang menjenguk...siapa yang akan pulang menjenguk mereka sedangkan anda asyik sibuk memberi alasan "SIBUK". Kesunyian ibubapa kita dapatkah kita rasai? Mereka hanya perlukan kita beberapa ketika sahaja sebab mereka sudah merasai tak lama lagi mereka akan berhijrah ke alam kubur yang jauh lebih sunyi.

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku bukan tak nak balik tapi tak dapat cuti."

5. Bila Ibubapa anda ditaqdirkan meninggal dunia, siapakah yang berada disisinya dan menguruskan jenazahnya? Perhatikan wajah ibu/bapa kita buat kali terakhir sebelum kain kapan menutup wajah mereka adakah wajahnya berada dalam keceriaan atau kesedihan.

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku bukan tak nak balik tengok mak/bapak aku masa dia sakit tempohari tapi masa tu aku tengah sibuk sangat."

6. Bila Ibubapa anda sudah tidak mampu menguruskan diri mereka akibat keuzuran, mampukah anda uruskan? Ibubapa kita tidak pernah mengeluh ketika mereka membesarkan kita. Mereka akan lakukan yang terbaik untuk memastikan kita mendapat yang terbaik. Biarpun mereka terpaksa berkorban, bertungkus-lumus, bergolok-bergadai tetapi bila tiba giliran kita dapatkah kita lakukan apa yang seharusnya kita lakukan demi SEORANG ibu/ayah? Benarlah, ibu/bapa boleh menjaga 10 orang anak tetapi 10 orang anak belum pasti boleh menjaga seorang ibu/ayah.

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku sibuk, biarlah adik-beradik aku yang lain uruskan."

7. Bila Ibubapa anda meminta duit untuk membeli sesuatu yang mereka hajatkan, bolehkah anda berikan tanpa sebarang alasan?Ketahuilah....walau apapun kita lakukan untuk ibubapa kita, kita masih belum mampu membalas jasa mereka kerana setitik air susu ibu...setitik keringat ayah....apakah nilainya pada kita?Lupakah kita bagaimana ibubapa kita membesarkan kita? Boleh kita bayangkan bersama2?....Sedarlah saudara/saudari berkhidmatlah untuk kedua ibubapa kita sementara mereka masih hidup....sedarlah berapa hari lagi kita dapat melihat dan bersama ibubapa kita kerana pengorbanan mereka sangat sangat besar pada kita...

Buktikan!!! Biarpun 100 orang, 1,000 orang, 10,000 orang nak tengok kita gagal TETAPI ada 2 ORANG YANG BENAR2 NAK TENGOK KITA BERJAYA IAITU IBUBAPA KITA. Tunjukkanlah kejayaan sebelum mereka menghembuskan nafas dan menutup mata. Buktikan pada mereka bahawa zuriat yang mereka lahirkan ini adalah zuriat yang sangat HEBAT!
MAKA MARILAH KITA MENILAI DIRI SENDIRI....

Sharing is caring.... Al-Fatehah utk kedua ibubapa kita.

Copy paste...food for thought

THINK ABOUT IT !!!!

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind.

She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her.

She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

  One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

  He asked her,’ Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?'

The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

  Her boyfriend left her in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.

Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

  Life Is a Gift

  Today before you say an unkind word -

Think of someone who can't speak.  

  Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

  Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to ALLAH  for a companion.

  Today before you complain about life -

Think of someone who died too young.

  Before you complain about your children -

Think of someone who desires children but they're barren.

  Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep -

Think of the people who are living in the streets.

  Before whining about the distance you drive

Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

  And when you are tired and complain about your job -

Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

  But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another -

Remember that not one of us is without sin and we all answer to one MAKER.

  And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down -

Put a smile on your face and thank ALLAH you're alive and still around.

ALLAH Bless You...

Hadis mengenai jangan membuka aib sendiri ataupun org lain...

Diriwayatkan dari Abu Hurairah RA ia berkata, “Aku pernah mendengar Rasulullah SAW bersabda: “Seluruh umatku akan diampuni dosa-dosa kecuali orang-orang yang terang-terangan (berbuat dosa). Di antara orang-orang yang terang-terangan berbuat dosa adalah seseorang yang pada waktu malam berbuat dosa, kemudian di waktu pagi ia menceritakan kepada manusia dosa yang dia lakukan semalam, padahal Allah telah menutupi aibnya. Ia berkata, “Wahai fulan, semalam aku berbuat ini dan itu”. Sebenarnya pada waktu malam Tuhannya telah menutupi perbuatannya itu, tetapi justru pagi harinya ia membuka aibnya sendiri yang telah ditutupi oleh Allah.” (Muttafaqun ‘alaih HR Bukhari dan Muslim)..

Sama2 la kte beramal insyaAllah...

:')

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OBj7BtWIu3Y&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Move

Hm seems that I really need to move on now with her all engaged & everything...
Well there is this girl I like a while back...met her last 2 years...but well doesnt mean that u like someone that someone will like u back rite? But whatever happens to me, I believe totally in Him...I love Him more than anything, I shall bleed & die for Him & Him only if I have to, yey I cant sacrifice my temporary happiness for Him? No way! Whoever I get as my jodoh, or even if I dont get anyone, I believe in Him more than anything... I am truly happy though that she already found someone & engaged to that guy already...ur happiness makes me happy too... I never want to see u sad...seeing u happy? Thats a gift for me... Whoever that guy is, he is really a lucky guy...hey why not, even after being separated for nearly 5 years u were always in my mind...u hv grown, into a more mature woman...myb now u are even more elegant a person, unlike few years back when u were with me :p hm eventhough I thought of writting this post for someone else, it turns out u were once again being the spotlight...hehe...no matter how I cherish the times we were together, I will give u my word, once u are married, none of such things will be around me anymore...I will try to strt forgeting about u from now, from the time u are engaged.hopefully due ur wedding, I hv completely forgotten about u...selamat berbahagia dunia akhirat...insyaAllah from time to time I will pray for u :)

Death & Losses

Humans, no matter how we love somebody, miss him/her/them, want to be beside them always, the will be the time we will lose them...the question is not when we will lose them, but rather, how ready & prepared we are when we lose them...bo matter how we try to hang on to them, how we love them, how we try to cherish them, we need to remember, they are not ours to begin with.

Even we ourselves are not ours. We are merely borrowing, but we have so much freedom we tend to forget that. In losing them, we will never know when. Apart from cherishing them now, it is best to always be prepared to have the mentality, to have the strength to be ready to lose them whenever the time comes.

Distances, in a way, acts as a medium for us to learn to cope with such things. Yes, we dont ever want to lose them, not in the near future, not ever to be frank. On dealing with such thing, just start with a simple 'I will be gone one day'...& in that sense will we want others to feel sad, gloomy? No. I want others, despite misses me when I am away, to be living on with their lives. Therefore, I too will not be too sadden to continue on with my life whenever I lose my loved ones. InsyaAllah we pray, that we will be reunited in the afterlife in the best possible circumstances.

I love my family, her, my friends, my relatives, etc. But always remember we ourselves doesnt hv complete life & death control over ourselves, so why should we have such powers over others? No matter when, we are to always be ready whenever He chooses to take them away from us...

La tahzan, innallaha ma'ana...wa ma'anhum... always remember that...

Doctor time

Why is time being address as a doctor? Many says that time can heal anything... that means that time is actually a doctor rite? But as most of the creation of our Graceful & the one & only god, Allah, unlike its creator, creations are not perfect. There are certain things that time are not possibly able to heal. Just as actual human doctors, the work can be done 100% percent, but the end result is absolutely from the Creator. Minus the unavoidable mistakes & the weakness of men, that leaves us less than 100%. Time, on the other hand, have things limited from it preventing it to heal things such as physical damages, etc. On the other hand, dr time is always said to be reliable in recovering us from the inner side pain. Psychological pain. Feelings. Love, for example.

What is love? What do dr time define love as? Dr time would possibly suggest a hypothesis that love is a feeling developed over time, from 1 thing to another, which involves effections n beautiful feelings, that, over time, this love can grow or weaken depending on the circumstances. A negative circumstances could lead to the weakening of this so called love, while a positive incomes can lead to the otherwise.

In truth, a real love would grow, blossom, & keep moving forward regardless of the surroundings. Over time, a real love sustain n increase in its figurative size, withstanding whatever comes in its way. A love so true, so genuine, as vast as the deep blue sea, as clear as the crystal sky, nothing can stand in its way. Nothing. Even when u need to let go of the love, for the sake of the loved. A true lover only see happiness of the loved, dismissing any uncomfort any uneasy feelings the lover needs to encounter. A broken heart doesnt not stop the lover to do whats best fot the loved, nor a broken soul. No big as pain can attack the lover, in seeing & wanting the loved be happy.  How often do we see parents from foster home files a summon because they are being left there by their own sons & daughters? How often do we see parents kept a list of expenditures n spendings, just to claim back all the ones they had use to raise their sons? Nothing stands between them & seeing their loved ones being happiness. Regardless of their condition, regardless of their wealth, regardless of their own happiness, & in some cases, regardless of their own life...

Life does not revolve around one person. Life does not revolve only around humans. Time, eventhough heals, it does not wait nor give special attention to oneself. At a specific time, a person may be happy earning his monthly salary, while at different faraway place, another is mourning over the death of a close family. One cannot put itself above time & wanting to be the centre of attention to everything. Sometimes sacrifice is required, blood for blood is needed for a better future of another. Love gave us a chance to do that. Love gave a way to make better of our life, our time, by sacrificing ours, to let another be happy. Love gives us an out. By doing something profitable to others rather than to our ownself. By doing so, we are giving 'precious' time to others.

A true love is accepting the loved, & their decision, even when the odds are against us. Surely it hurts, but here comes the friendly loving dr time... it will surely come to heal us. Regardless of long it seems to take. For the sake of the ones we loved. Remember, always keep telling ourself, that even though time is the doctor, it does not carry in its hand the end result. Our Cretor does. Nothing will get past Him without His judgements, so in loving others, make it count. Rather than for ourself, prioritize on the loved ones. At least, in the end, eventhough we wont have what we wanted, we would be doing a deed.

And trust me, in His eyes, we would rather have the deed, no matter how tiny it is, how insignificance & unnoticable by the humans eyes It may seems. It might be that tiny piece of deed that will be the difference between our good deeds & bad sins. May we pray for His forgiveness always, & may we pray for others too.

When...

When a

girl

bumps into your arm while walking she wants you to hold her hand When she wants a hug she will just stand there When u break a girls heart, she still feels it when u run into each other 3 years later When a girl is quiet, millions of things are running through her mind. When a girl is not arguing, she is thinking deeply. When a girl looks at you with eyes full of questions, she is wondering how long you will be around. When a girl answers, "I'm fine, " after a few seconds, she is not at all fine. When a girl stares at you, she is wondering why you are so wonderful. When a girl lays her head on your chest, she is wishing for you to be hers forever. When a girl says that she can't live without you, she has made up her mind that you are her future. When a girl says, "I miss you, " no one in this world can miss you more than that When a girl is mean to you after a breakup she wants you back, but she's scared she'll get hurt and knows you're gone forever When a

guy

calls you, he wants to be with you When a guy is quiet, He's listening to you... When a guy is not arguing, He realizes he's wrong When a guy says, "I'm fine, " after a few minutes, he means it When a guy stares at you, he wishes you would care about him and wonders if you do When you're laying your head on a guy's chest, he has the world When a guy calls you everyday, he is in love When a (good) guy tells you he loves you, he means it When a guy says he can't live without you, he's with you till your done When a guy says, "I miss you, " he misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else I miss u tna...

Touching story of an old father, son and a sparrow

Have you ever watch the Petronas advertisement /short clip about the story of an old father, his son & a magpie bird? Well this one is quite similar to that video, only it is not the Malaysian version. Enjoy & think :)

Found the video from http://islamicthinking.tumblr.com/post/5862528707/honour-your-parents-always

Let's always love our parents & all the elderly, respect them. Even if the elders aren't our parents,but they are parents to some other souls. That, my friend, is exactly why in Islam we are to respect not only our parents, but all the elderly. :) May whatever we do - even the smallest, tiniest, unknown-by-others deed - will be seen by Him as worthy deed, useful of taking us into the resentment of our sins, & as a toll for making it to His heaven. Amiin. :)

Abdullah bin Abbas (RA) reported that the Prophet (SAW) said that encouraging good, prohibiting evil, lifting the burden of the weak person and removing an offensive thing from a path are all acceptable prayers to Allah. [ibn Majah]

Si Itam (The Black One)

Hi, 10 ice…do you know…

Back then…“Get away, get away you filthy animal!!! Damn cat…” That’s my normal reaction seeing cats wandering out in front of me house. I don’t know, but maybe I do not really like them, or no point in liking them I think.

“Oh see that cat there, how cute…” is what people used to say bout them cat. Seriously, what cuteness do they see. All the cats have the same look to me. A somewhat ugly, murderous, evil,devilish stare shines from its face. Always with the sneaky, ill-intention look, hidden by its so-called ‘cute & pityful’ smile… Yeah rite, as if it can fool me, others, okay, but me? Hell no.

Anyway, just until recently, I got this link about a story of a cat & its caring owner. Well, guess who’s the owner is? It happens to be our most glorious leader, most highest ranking man by His eyes, & yet the most humblest person the world has ever known. The last Messenger of Allah, prophet Muhammad ( peace be upon him).

In the story, our great Prophet p.b.u.h. shows such great care & love to the cat, as if it were his own son. Once, he was on his way to go perform salah. Just when reaching out for his jubah ( a kind of cloth used mostly by the Arabians), his cat, named Mueeza, were sleeping cozily on the jubah. Not wanting to wake up Mueeza, he chosed to cut the part of jubah which were occupied by Mueeza…

Maybe, because of this story, I kinda have a different cats. Even the most noble person in the world - the man who is promised to be the very first to enter His heaven – treats a mere animal, a cat with such respect. That, me friend, is how the leader of men should be, not bias, not taking any particular liking to any certain groups, or, in his case, species.

Now… I am trying to take a liking too towards cats. Yeah, supposedly to all other animals, but still, think & aim big, start small. There is this particular cat, a small one, that keeps coming to our house. Well me & my housemates decide to buy it some food, feeding it. A small, black cat… Blacky ( Si itam ) is what we called it.

I.... urrmmm.... You...

I Really Like You

I really like you...
But I can't be with you now, so I'll always go meet the one that loves you the most, to trust you to be with me.

I really like you...
But I can't protect you every single second, so I'll assign the world's best bodyguard to watch your back every single moment.

I really like you...
But I can't give you everything you need, so I'll seek the world's best hustler to provide you with everything you want, anytime you want it.

I really like you...
But I cant be there when you cry, so I'll prepare you the world's best shrine, to chase away all your problems, negativeness inside you & exchange them with happiness & joy.

I really like you...
But I can't cure your illness, so I'll hire you the world's best doctor, to keep you in full vitality & healthy every single point in your life.

I really like you...
But I can't solve your problems, so I'll pay the world's best hitman, to kill off all your headaches & despairs.

I really like you...
But I can't accompany you 24 / 7, so I'll send you the world's most trusted friend, to be there hearing out all of your whines & complaints, shouldering off all your sorrow & gloominess, comforting you with all the anguish & madness you've held in yourself, & keeping you always lively & energetic.

I really like you...
But I can't always see you, so I'll send you the world's fastest bird to reach you anytime I misses you.

I really like you...
But I didn't know what the fate have installed for us, so I'll call upon the world's best cupid to steal your heart & keep it just for me, giving it to me when the time is right.

Rasulullah s.a.w dan Kucingnya - akuislam.com

Diceritakan dalam suatu kisah, Nabi Muhammad SAW memiliki seekor kucing yang diberi nama Mueeza.

Suatu ketika, dikala nabi hendak mengambil jubahnya, di temuinya Mueeza sedang terlelap tidur dengan santai diatas jubahnya. Kerana tidak mahu mengganggu haiwan kesayangannya itu, nabi pun memotong belahan lengan yang ditiduri Mueeza dari jubahnya.

Ketika Nabi kembali ke rumah, Muezza terbangun dan tunduk sujud kepada tuannya.

Sebagai balasan, nabi menyatakan kasih sayangnya dengan mengusap lembut ke badan kucing baginda itu sebanyak 3 kali.

Dalam peristiwa lain, setiap kali Nabi menerima tetamu di rumahnya, nabi selalu menggendong mueeza dan diriba diatas pahanya.

Salah satu sifat Mueeza yang nabi sukai ialah dia selalu mengeong ketika mendengar azan, dan seolah-olah suaranya terdengar seperti mengikuti lantunan suara azan.

Kepada para sahabat, nabi selalu berpesan untuk menyayangi kucing peliharaan, seperti menyayangi keluarga sendiri.

Hukuman bagi mereka yang menyakiti haiwan manja ini sangatlah berat, dalam sebuah hadis sahih Al Bukhari, dikisahkan tentang seorang wanita yang tidak pernah memberi makan kucingnya, dan tidak pula melepaskan kucingnya untuk mencari makan sendiri.

Nabi SAW pun menjelaskan bahawa hukuman bagi wanita ini adalah siksaan neraka.

Tidak hanya nabi, isteri nabi sendiri, Aisyah binti Abu Bakar Ash Siddiq pun amat menyukai kucing, dan merasa amat kehilangan dikala kucingnya meninggalkan

Seorang sahabat yang juga ahli hadis, Abdurrahman bin Sakhr Al Azdi diberi jolokan Abu Hurairah (bapa kucing jantan), kerana kegemarannya dalam merawat dan memelihara banyak kucing jantan dirumahnya.



*Ada sesetengah dari kita sanggup membiarkan kucing kelaparan. Mungkin ramai yang tidak mengetahui balasannya. Nak baca kisah sedih kucing tak? klik sini

*saya pun suka kucing, ada semua suka kucing tak? sunnah nabi ni..hi3

sumber : zharifalimin.blogspot

Was taken by me from http://akuislam.com/blog/kisah-tauladan/rasulullah-s-a-w-dan-kucingnya/#axzz1Md04cv7U

Food For Thought. Enjoy & Think

To be, or not to be...;

what kind of question is that?

God acts in mysterious ways.

We, as His humble servants, must always believe & trust in Him.

After you've eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, however impropable, must be the truth.

Sherlock Holmes.

In striving for excellence, keep in mind, two things.

Failure, is a stepping stone, & success, is a mirage.

See, observe, try.

Thats the key, in solving problems.

You, are my everything, more than anything.

For You, I shall serve, till the last drop of me blood.

An apple a day, keeps the doctor away.

So, please, stay off them apples. Hehe.

Hot as hell,

yet, cool as ice.

Secebis kata buat seseorang

Secebis kata buat seseorang,



You, were once my everything, more than anything.

You taught me more to life, there are far more things to be learn & discover than meets the eye.

Love, friendship, hardship, care, wisdom - life is full of experiences & adventures as vast as the blue vast ocean – to sum a few, all by just being with you.

You certainly complements certain traits of mine. My black, anguish, raging short-tempered of mine, just with a smile, you threw them away, just like the leaves of Autumn, being swept away by the clear, breeze of wind. At times, just like a mere punchbag, you received every single batch of rage, well yes, short – temper can’t always be locked away. Did you blast back, with that part of yer own hot – tempered in you? Did you falter, best knowing that there are no cure to such impureable part of me? No! You did the one method best chosed to handle this beastly act of mankind, quiet. Quiet. Just be quiet. Let it be. Leave ‘em for a sec. No harms done. To ‘em, nor to you.

At times, you did what women do best. Tears. Yes, some might say, that tears are always an easy exit for women. Cry, for sure they’ll get attention, or be left alone, as in the case stated previously. But no, to you, yer tears are rare. They are yer gold,, yer diamond, no way you’ll leave ‘em out in public. By sheding a drop of tear, means throwing out one of yer precious belongings. Yet, you know when to show such tears, you’ve always shared ‘em with yer family & friends. Just to make me happy, not worrying the slightest bit. But from them I learnt it eventually, making me regret. You know the best way of teaching me, reaching out to me, with care & sincerity.

Sincerity. Yes. That smile of yours. Sweet, shy yet sincere smile of yer always made my day. To long for such moment, was among other things that kept me mind on you. Many may change about you, but that smile, that ‘triple S’ smile of yours will always remain. Even most of yer friends acknowledge that smile of yours, ‘brighten up my day’, ‘wash off the sadness in me’, ‘makes me smile & happy’ just to name a few. Smile is a ‘sedekah’, it is not just a friendly expression, it could even lighten up others that sees it not to mention it could also lift off burden on some.

Ah yes. During those days you were regarded as me number 2. And at times, you even leap yourself to number 1. Astaghfirullah, such were the power of ‘the two of us’ we were blinded in. Me philosophy, me priority of love was & has always been in the order of; 1st God. 2nd Islam. 3rd family. The first, as clearly as it indicates, God must always be a priority in whatever things we’re doing. Then comes number 2; Islam. In this part, are all the things we as Muslims must obey. Things such as ‘Rukun Iman’, ‘Rukun Islam’ follow Gods orders & stay away from sins, ‘Syirik’, ‘Dosa-dosa besar’ etc. Obeying & loving your two parents also falls in this category, for it is one of the ‘dosa-dosa besar’ if we disobey them. The third, family, consist mostly of our brothers & sisters, close relatives, friends, muslim brothers & sisters all around the world. This, is my belief that whom we must love most, by going through the ranks. But being with you, messes the ranks. You were supposed to be number 4, but you climb up to number 2, even worst to state, number 1. Yes, this kind of love, will blind us. I’ve felt it, falling hard crumbling to the ground.

Yet again. You. Sensing such disforgivable sins, step up to me. You wind back the time, tracing all what we’ve done, mostly are from my schemes, & arrange all of them memories, on the desk. We were blind, reaching to this point by walking in pitch black darkness, striving forward just by our reasoning alone. Drifted away, far away, from the road that should’ve brought us to our castle, we were led to house made by candies, chocolates & all from what a child could have ever wanted. Yes, from the outside, it was surely seen like heaven. But inside, lies await hell. Just like Hansel & Gretel. Blinded by mere fatamorgana. While the castle, from far away seems like a small house, but in truth, the real heaven. I knew not back then. Me eyes were shut.

Now. All seems dark, gloomy at first. Without that smile of yours, without that caring thoughts & positive words of yours, life seems to be engulfed in darkness. Seeing a girl, makes me mind play back all of our memories together. Such happiness, we were living in a heaven of our own. Enrage in flames, was how I felt back when you said we are over. A pair goes back being two singles, a peanut broken down to two shell, a pair of glass turn to two individual lenses.

Why? Why? Such a thing was not acceptable. Nope. Not by me. Did you love me not, for all the times we’re together? Were all lies? Anger filled me mind. And yes. Those damned creatures by God were filling in me thoughts & reasonings.

Slowly, as time flies by, clock ticking in its usual manner, day by day, week by week, month by month, it came to me. I understand now. Every single one of your acts, every single body language of yours, expression, behaviour, makes sense to me. It was to make me a better person. To blend me into a better muslim. To crement me into a good husband.

“If you done that kind of thing, how would I ever believe you won’t repeat such manner?” Yes, for now I understood. A ‘pair’ is not necessary. Even God never gave such alternative in His Holy Quran. No. The only way for a man & a woman which are not ‘muhrim’ to be together is marriage.

Now, even if me heart aches for you every single moment, just to see you, just to see yer smile, I now know what to do. Let I be, ignore it, but always pray to Him. I am not perfect. At times I can’t completely ignore it, but it is worth a try. But, for Him, I will do my best not to find for meself a ‘pair’ in the wrong way ever again. Not with you, not with anyone else. Ameen Ya Allah.

You. I did & will at times pray so that we may be together with His blessings. But He is Just, He knows more than us mere mortals, & whom knows better of the creation more than its Creator? So whatever happens, I believe fully in Him & His choices. Just as stated in His Holy Quran:

”Evil women are for evil men, and evil men are for evil women. And good women are for good men, and good men are for good women. Those [good people] are declared innocent of what the slanderers say. For them is forgiveness and noble provision.” 24 : 26.

May we always live & prosper under His guidance, & may we die just for Him, not for anything or anyone else. Ameen.

17 Things Your Mother Wants You to Know By Meaghan Cameron

Nice reader's digest entry ( copied from rd.com ) regarding mothers - yeah, let me dedicate this entry for all the loving-mothers all around the world & more specifically, my very own-the-very-best-mother-i-have, my mama - & their very own special day, Mother's Day.
A couple of things in here really made me think...
Well, just for sharing with those out there & also for my own savings~

17 Things Your Mother Wants You to Know

We asked our Facebook mothers to share the best advice they have received from their mothers.
By Meaghan Cameron
From Reader's Digest

1. Be kind to everyone. You never know what's really going on in someone's life. -- Mary Morgan


2. Dear child, when u grow up, remember not to give everything to a guy. -- Nadia El Ghani

3. I have never heard one person say that life was easy. -- Chris Taylor

4. Never become complacent in anything in life, whether it be driving, work, or relationships, you have to pay attention, and strive toward perfection. -- Elizabeth Wysocki Landino

5. If a man or woman is down you give them your hand. -- Shanesh Ranchhod

6. Do what you can, for who you can, with what you have, and where you are. -- Uma Maheswari

7. Never pass up an opportunity to use the restroom. -- Lisa Denton Riley

8. Always wear comfortable shoes. -- Lisa Denton Riley

9. Friends won't let you do stupid things...alone. -- Casey Leigh Steel Brelsford

10. Be yourself, because unless you are true to you, there is no way you can be true to others. -- Kayleigh Bondor

11. I will love you enough to tell you "no." -- Michele Chandler Dilbeck

12. No matter what your financial state, if a child’s needs are met, it is good for their character not to give them everything they want, make them earn the extras. -- Barbara Jean Sunday

13. Wear an old coat; buy a new book. -- Teressa Glazer

14. Doesn’t matter if you're cold or it hurts, as long as you look good -- Carla Rachael Ralls

15. God could not be everywhere, that's why he created mothers. -- Claire Villanueva

16. "The best gift that can be given to a child is a Mom and Dad who love each other." -- Leigh Ann Krohe

17. There's always a light at the end of the tunnel, just pray it's not a train -- Casey Leigh Steel Brelsford



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