Humans, no matter how we love somebody, miss him/her/them, want to be beside them always, the will be the time we will lose them...the question is not when we will lose them, but rather, how ready & prepared we are when we lose them...bo matter how we try to hang on to them, how we love them, how we try to cherish them, we need to remember, they are not ours to begin with.
Even we ourselves are not ours. We are merely borrowing, but we have so much freedom we tend to forget that. In losing them, we will never know when. Apart from cherishing them now, it is best to always be prepared to have the mentality, to have the strength to be ready to lose them whenever the time comes.
Distances, in a way, acts as a medium for us to learn to cope with such things. Yes, we dont ever want to lose them, not in the near future, not ever to be frank. On dealing with such thing, just start with a simple 'I will be gone one day'...& in that sense will we want others to feel sad, gloomy? No. I want others, despite misses me when I am away, to be living on with their lives. Therefore, I too will not be too sadden to continue on with my life whenever I lose my loved ones. InsyaAllah we pray, that we will be reunited in the afterlife in the best possible circumstances.
I love my family, her, my friends, my relatives, etc. But always remember we ourselves doesnt hv complete life & death control over ourselves, so why should we have such powers over others? No matter when, we are to always be ready whenever He chooses to take them away from us...
La tahzan, innallaha ma'ana...wa ma'anhum... always remember that...
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