Copy paste...food for thought

THINK ABOUT IT !!!!

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind.

She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her.

She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

  One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

  He asked her,’ Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?'

The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

  Her boyfriend left her in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.

Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

  Life Is a Gift

  Today before you say an unkind word -

Think of someone who can't speak.  

  Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

  Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to ALLAH  for a companion.

  Today before you complain about life -

Think of someone who died too young.

  Before you complain about your children -

Think of someone who desires children but they're barren.

  Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep -

Think of the people who are living in the streets.

  Before whining about the distance you drive

Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

  And when you are tired and complain about your job -

Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

  But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another -

Remember that not one of us is without sin and we all answer to one MAKER.

  And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down -

Put a smile on your face and thank ALLAH you're alive and still around.

ALLAH Bless You...

Hadis mengenai jangan membuka aib sendiri ataupun org lain...

Diriwayatkan dari Abu Hurairah RA ia berkata, “Aku pernah mendengar Rasulullah SAW bersabda: “Seluruh umatku akan diampuni dosa-dosa kecuali orang-orang yang terang-terangan (berbuat dosa). Di antara orang-orang yang terang-terangan berbuat dosa adalah seseorang yang pada waktu malam berbuat dosa, kemudian di waktu pagi ia menceritakan kepada manusia dosa yang dia lakukan semalam, padahal Allah telah menutupi aibnya. Ia berkata, “Wahai fulan, semalam aku berbuat ini dan itu”. Sebenarnya pada waktu malam Tuhannya telah menutupi perbuatannya itu, tetapi justru pagi harinya ia membuka aibnya sendiri yang telah ditutupi oleh Allah.” (Muttafaqun ‘alaih HR Bukhari dan Muslim)..

Sama2 la kte beramal insyaAllah...

:')

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Move

Hm seems that I really need to move on now with her all engaged & everything...
Well there is this girl I like a while back...met her last 2 years...but well doesnt mean that u like someone that someone will like u back rite? But whatever happens to me, I believe totally in Him...I love Him more than anything, I shall bleed & die for Him & Him only if I have to, yey I cant sacrifice my temporary happiness for Him? No way! Whoever I get as my jodoh, or even if I dont get anyone, I believe in Him more than anything... I am truly happy though that she already found someone & engaged to that guy already...ur happiness makes me happy too... I never want to see u sad...seeing u happy? Thats a gift for me... Whoever that guy is, he is really a lucky guy...hey why not, even after being separated for nearly 5 years u were always in my mind...u hv grown, into a more mature woman...myb now u are even more elegant a person, unlike few years back when u were with me :p hm eventhough I thought of writting this post for someone else, it turns out u were once again being the spotlight...hehe...no matter how I cherish the times we were together, I will give u my word, once u are married, none of such things will be around me anymore...I will try to strt forgeting about u from now, from the time u are engaged.hopefully due ur wedding, I hv completely forgotten about u...selamat berbahagia dunia akhirat...insyaAllah from time to time I will pray for u :)

Farahdiya - Kau Telah Pergi

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Kau Telah Pergi - Farahdhiya

Mungkin aku yang salah
Ku tak mampu untuk menjaga cintamu
Hanya untuk diriku
Mungkin aku yang salah tak menjagamu

Memang aku tak mampu
Ku tak mampu untuk menjaga cintamu
Selalu untuk diriku
Memang aku yang salah buatmu terluka

Jujur ku katakan ku masih mencintaimu
Walaupun diriku selalu menyakitimu
Jujur aku masih ingin bersamamu
Walau dirimu kini bukan untukku lagi
Kau telah pergi

Kini kau telah terluka kau tak ingin lagi
Mencintaiku kerna ku menyakitimu
Kini kau bukan untuk diriku lagi

Jujur ku katakan ku masih mencintaimu
Walaupun diriku selalu menyakitimu
Jujur aku masih ingin bersamamu
Walau dirimu kini bukan untukku lagi
Kau telah pergi

Death & Losses

Humans, no matter how we love somebody, miss him/her/them, want to be beside them always, the will be the time we will lose them...the question is not when we will lose them, but rather, how ready & prepared we are when we lose them...bo matter how we try to hang on to them, how we love them, how we try to cherish them, we need to remember, they are not ours to begin with.

Even we ourselves are not ours. We are merely borrowing, but we have so much freedom we tend to forget that. In losing them, we will never know when. Apart from cherishing them now, it is best to always be prepared to have the mentality, to have the strength to be ready to lose them whenever the time comes.

Distances, in a way, acts as a medium for us to learn to cope with such things. Yes, we dont ever want to lose them, not in the near future, not ever to be frank. On dealing with such thing, just start with a simple 'I will be gone one day'...& in that sense will we want others to feel sad, gloomy? No. I want others, despite misses me when I am away, to be living on with their lives. Therefore, I too will not be too sadden to continue on with my life whenever I lose my loved ones. InsyaAllah we pray, that we will be reunited in the afterlife in the best possible circumstances.

I love my family, her, my friends, my relatives, etc. But always remember we ourselves doesnt hv complete life & death control over ourselves, so why should we have such powers over others? No matter when, we are to always be ready whenever He chooses to take them away from us...

La tahzan, innallaha ma'ana...wa ma'anhum... always remember that...

Doctor time

Why is time being address as a doctor? Many says that time can heal anything... that means that time is actually a doctor rite? But as most of the creation of our Graceful & the one & only god, Allah, unlike its creator, creations are not perfect. There are certain things that time are not possibly able to heal. Just as actual human doctors, the work can be done 100% percent, but the end result is absolutely from the Creator. Minus the unavoidable mistakes & the weakness of men, that leaves us less than 100%. Time, on the other hand, have things limited from it preventing it to heal things such as physical damages, etc. On the other hand, dr time is always said to be reliable in recovering us from the inner side pain. Psychological pain. Feelings. Love, for example.

What is love? What do dr time define love as? Dr time would possibly suggest a hypothesis that love is a feeling developed over time, from 1 thing to another, which involves effections n beautiful feelings, that, over time, this love can grow or weaken depending on the circumstances. A negative circumstances could lead to the weakening of this so called love, while a positive incomes can lead to the otherwise.

In truth, a real love would grow, blossom, & keep moving forward regardless of the surroundings. Over time, a real love sustain n increase in its figurative size, withstanding whatever comes in its way. A love so true, so genuine, as vast as the deep blue sea, as clear as the crystal sky, nothing can stand in its way. Nothing. Even when u need to let go of the love, for the sake of the loved. A true lover only see happiness of the loved, dismissing any uncomfort any uneasy feelings the lover needs to encounter. A broken heart doesnt not stop the lover to do whats best fot the loved, nor a broken soul. No big as pain can attack the lover, in seeing & wanting the loved be happy.  How often do we see parents from foster home files a summon because they are being left there by their own sons & daughters? How often do we see parents kept a list of expenditures n spendings, just to claim back all the ones they had use to raise their sons? Nothing stands between them & seeing their loved ones being happiness. Regardless of their condition, regardless of their wealth, regardless of their own happiness, & in some cases, regardless of their own life...

Life does not revolve around one person. Life does not revolve only around humans. Time, eventhough heals, it does not wait nor give special attention to oneself. At a specific time, a person may be happy earning his monthly salary, while at different faraway place, another is mourning over the death of a close family. One cannot put itself above time & wanting to be the centre of attention to everything. Sometimes sacrifice is required, blood for blood is needed for a better future of another. Love gave us a chance to do that. Love gave a way to make better of our life, our time, by sacrificing ours, to let another be happy. Love gives us an out. By doing something profitable to others rather than to our ownself. By doing so, we are giving 'precious' time to others.

A true love is accepting the loved, & their decision, even when the odds are against us. Surely it hurts, but here comes the friendly loving dr time... it will surely come to heal us. Regardless of long it seems to take. For the sake of the ones we loved. Remember, always keep telling ourself, that even though time is the doctor, it does not carry in its hand the end result. Our Cretor does. Nothing will get past Him without His judgements, so in loving others, make it count. Rather than for ourself, prioritize on the loved ones. At least, in the end, eventhough we wont have what we wanted, we would be doing a deed.

And trust me, in His eyes, we would rather have the deed, no matter how tiny it is, how insignificance & unnoticable by the humans eyes It may seems. It might be that tiny piece of deed that will be the difference between our good deeds & bad sins. May we pray for His forgiveness always, & may we pray for others too.