Copy paste...some more food for thought on parent...

7 sebab kenapa kita perlu Berjaya dan Kaya

1. Bila Ibubapa anda masih belum MAMPU menunaikan Rukun Islam ke-5 iaitu Menunaikan Haji, siapakah yang akan membantu menunaikan hajat & impian mereka?

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku pun tak ade duit"

2. Bila Ibubapa anda perlukan duit untuk meneruskan sisa2 kehidupan mereka, untuk makan sesuap nasi, seteguk air, siapa yang akan menanggung mereka?

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku pun tak cukup makan."

3. Bila Ibubapa anda sakit, siapa yang akan uruskan bil2 klinik, hospital & kos perubatan mereka? Adakah kita hanya perlu pejamkan mata dan pekakkan telinga? Mereka tidak pernah meminta2 dari kita kerana mereka sangat memahami keadaan kita tetapi kita memahami kah keadaan mereka.

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku ada banyak hutang nak kena bayar bulan ni."

4. Bila Ibubapa anda bersedih kesunyian, tiada anak2 datang menjenguk...siapa yang akan pulang menjenguk mereka sedangkan anda asyik sibuk memberi alasan "SIBUK". Kesunyian ibubapa kita dapatkah kita rasai? Mereka hanya perlukan kita beberapa ketika sahaja sebab mereka sudah merasai tak lama lagi mereka akan berhijrah ke alam kubur yang jauh lebih sunyi.

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku bukan tak nak balik tapi tak dapat cuti."

5. Bila Ibubapa anda ditaqdirkan meninggal dunia, siapakah yang berada disisinya dan menguruskan jenazahnya? Perhatikan wajah ibu/bapa kita buat kali terakhir sebelum kain kapan menutup wajah mereka adakah wajahnya berada dalam keceriaan atau kesedihan.

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku bukan tak nak balik tengok mak/bapak aku masa dia sakit tempohari tapi masa tu aku tengah sibuk sangat."

6. Bila Ibubapa anda sudah tidak mampu menguruskan diri mereka akibat keuzuran, mampukah anda uruskan? Ibubapa kita tidak pernah mengeluh ketika mereka membesarkan kita. Mereka akan lakukan yang terbaik untuk memastikan kita mendapat yang terbaik. Biarpun mereka terpaksa berkorban, bertungkus-lumus, bergolok-bergadai tetapi bila tiba giliran kita dapatkah kita lakukan apa yang seharusnya kita lakukan demi SEORANG ibu/ayah? Benarlah, ibu/bapa boleh menjaga 10 orang anak tetapi 10 orang anak belum pasti boleh menjaga seorang ibu/ayah.

Tergamakkah kita berkata,"aku sibuk, biarlah adik-beradik aku yang lain uruskan."

7. Bila Ibubapa anda meminta duit untuk membeli sesuatu yang mereka hajatkan, bolehkah anda berikan tanpa sebarang alasan?Ketahuilah....walau apapun kita lakukan untuk ibubapa kita, kita masih belum mampu membalas jasa mereka kerana setitik air susu ibu...setitik keringat ayah....apakah nilainya pada kita?Lupakah kita bagaimana ibubapa kita membesarkan kita? Boleh kita bayangkan bersama2?....Sedarlah saudara/saudari berkhidmatlah untuk kedua ibubapa kita sementara mereka masih hidup....sedarlah berapa hari lagi kita dapat melihat dan bersama ibubapa kita kerana pengorbanan mereka sangat sangat besar pada kita...

Buktikan!!! Biarpun 100 orang, 1,000 orang, 10,000 orang nak tengok kita gagal TETAPI ada 2 ORANG YANG BENAR2 NAK TENGOK KITA BERJAYA IAITU IBUBAPA KITA. Tunjukkanlah kejayaan sebelum mereka menghembuskan nafas dan menutup mata. Buktikan pada mereka bahawa zuriat yang mereka lahirkan ini adalah zuriat yang sangat HEBAT!
MAKA MARILAH KITA MENILAI DIRI SENDIRI....

Sharing is caring.... Al-Fatehah utk kedua ibubapa kita.

Copy paste...food for thought

THINK ABOUT IT !!!!

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind.

She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her.

She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

  One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

  He asked her,’ Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?'

The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

  Her boyfriend left her in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.

Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

  Life Is a Gift

  Today before you say an unkind word -

Think of someone who can't speak.  

  Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

  Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to ALLAH  for a companion.

  Today before you complain about life -

Think of someone who died too young.

  Before you complain about your children -

Think of someone who desires children but they're barren.

  Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep -

Think of the people who are living in the streets.

  Before whining about the distance you drive

Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

  And when you are tired and complain about your job -

Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

  But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another -

Remember that not one of us is without sin and we all answer to one MAKER.

  And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down -

Put a smile on your face and thank ALLAH you're alive and still around.

ALLAH Bless You...

Hadis mengenai jangan membuka aib sendiri ataupun org lain...

Diriwayatkan dari Abu Hurairah RA ia berkata, “Aku pernah mendengar Rasulullah SAW bersabda: “Seluruh umatku akan diampuni dosa-dosa kecuali orang-orang yang terang-terangan (berbuat dosa). Di antara orang-orang yang terang-terangan berbuat dosa adalah seseorang yang pada waktu malam berbuat dosa, kemudian di waktu pagi ia menceritakan kepada manusia dosa yang dia lakukan semalam, padahal Allah telah menutupi aibnya. Ia berkata, “Wahai fulan, semalam aku berbuat ini dan itu”. Sebenarnya pada waktu malam Tuhannya telah menutupi perbuatannya itu, tetapi justru pagi harinya ia membuka aibnya sendiri yang telah ditutupi oleh Allah.” (Muttafaqun ‘alaih HR Bukhari dan Muslim)..

Sama2 la kte beramal insyaAllah...

:')

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OBj7BtWIu3Y&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Move

Hm seems that I really need to move on now with her all engaged & everything...
Well there is this girl I like a while back...met her last 2 years...but well doesnt mean that u like someone that someone will like u back rite? But whatever happens to me, I believe totally in Him...I love Him more than anything, I shall bleed & die for Him & Him only if I have to, yey I cant sacrifice my temporary happiness for Him? No way! Whoever I get as my jodoh, or even if I dont get anyone, I believe in Him more than anything... I am truly happy though that she already found someone & engaged to that guy already...ur happiness makes me happy too... I never want to see u sad...seeing u happy? Thats a gift for me... Whoever that guy is, he is really a lucky guy...hey why not, even after being separated for nearly 5 years u were always in my mind...u hv grown, into a more mature woman...myb now u are even more elegant a person, unlike few years back when u were with me :p hm eventhough I thought of writting this post for someone else, it turns out u were once again being the spotlight...hehe...no matter how I cherish the times we were together, I will give u my word, once u are married, none of such things will be around me anymore...I will try to strt forgeting about u from now, from the time u are engaged.hopefully due ur wedding, I hv completely forgotten about u...selamat berbahagia dunia akhirat...insyaAllah from time to time I will pray for u :)

Farahdiya - Kau Telah Pergi

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ZUNcFp361Y&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Kau Telah Pergi - Farahdhiya

Mungkin aku yang salah
Ku tak mampu untuk menjaga cintamu
Hanya untuk diriku
Mungkin aku yang salah tak menjagamu

Memang aku tak mampu
Ku tak mampu untuk menjaga cintamu
Selalu untuk diriku
Memang aku yang salah buatmu terluka

Jujur ku katakan ku masih mencintaimu
Walaupun diriku selalu menyakitimu
Jujur aku masih ingin bersamamu
Walau dirimu kini bukan untukku lagi
Kau telah pergi

Kini kau telah terluka kau tak ingin lagi
Mencintaiku kerna ku menyakitimu
Kini kau bukan untuk diriku lagi

Jujur ku katakan ku masih mencintaimu
Walaupun diriku selalu menyakitimu
Jujur aku masih ingin bersamamu
Walau dirimu kini bukan untukku lagi
Kau telah pergi

Death & Losses

Humans, no matter how we love somebody, miss him/her/them, want to be beside them always, the will be the time we will lose them...the question is not when we will lose them, but rather, how ready & prepared we are when we lose them...bo matter how we try to hang on to them, how we love them, how we try to cherish them, we need to remember, they are not ours to begin with.

Even we ourselves are not ours. We are merely borrowing, but we have so much freedom we tend to forget that. In losing them, we will never know when. Apart from cherishing them now, it is best to always be prepared to have the mentality, to have the strength to be ready to lose them whenever the time comes.

Distances, in a way, acts as a medium for us to learn to cope with such things. Yes, we dont ever want to lose them, not in the near future, not ever to be frank. On dealing with such thing, just start with a simple 'I will be gone one day'...& in that sense will we want others to feel sad, gloomy? No. I want others, despite misses me when I am away, to be living on with their lives. Therefore, I too will not be too sadden to continue on with my life whenever I lose my loved ones. InsyaAllah we pray, that we will be reunited in the afterlife in the best possible circumstances.

I love my family, her, my friends, my relatives, etc. But always remember we ourselves doesnt hv complete life & death control over ourselves, so why should we have such powers over others? No matter when, we are to always be ready whenever He chooses to take them away from us...

La tahzan, innallaha ma'ana...wa ma'anhum... always remember that...